The Tiger Blankie

This morning when Kira woke up she said "You wanna know why Mason fell asleep so fast last night?!" I said of course I wanted to know. She said quite bitterly "He had the tiger blankie and its so soft and cuddly. My blanket doesn't have one bit of soft and cuddly!"

We have this blanket. Its called the "tiger blanket" but it actually has a lion on it. Its the ugliest thing made but so soft and perfect. Its been around the house since the family was created. Mike brought it back for me from the UAE in 2003. Its older than both Mason and Kira. They have laid on it since birth. Learned to crawl on it. Now at ages 7 and 9 we fight over this blanket. As I type they are arguing over who is sleeping with it tonight. Its 9 in the morning!

Its a security blanket to say the least. Its everyone's favorite throw blanket. Its impossible to count how many naps have been taken with it, how many movies its seen, how many cities and town across the US its traveled. Its one thing that is always there. Its only special because of the memories it holds and the comfort we feel when its near. Its just a blanket. An ugly old faded gross blanket. But we love it. 

Its strange that this blanket has seen so much. Homecomings from Iraq, birth of children, Christmas eves watching Rudolph sipping hot cocoa, family movie nights, cross country moves, death of loved ones...I guess its more than just a blanket to us. Its part of the family. Stupid ugly blanket. We love it.



Mike and the kids at Camp Pendleton 2011

Kira and Lulu in Wentzville MO 2013

Mike and Misty (Pregnant with Mason!) Chicago IL 2004

TJ in Missouri 2013

Kira Jazzy and Ash in 2014

Mason and Kira 2013

Sean and Mason Missouri just two months ago.

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