Yes, this is my life

I am just now hearing about the shooting in Florida. First, I want to say my condolences to all those who lost a loved one this weekend. So needless, so unfair. I truly understand your pain and my thoughts are with you l. I have not heard the background about the shooter but only overheard he claimed sympathy to Isis in a 911 call. That's the extent of my knowledge. What I'm going to do is give you my observations just from the few social media photos I ran across today before i go research. There are a few things I noticed just in photos that may really point out who this douchebag really is and boy is he a douche. First off, I have noticed in several photos he's wearing various NYPD shirts. My guess is he's grandiose. He's probably told friend and family he was or IS NYPD when he was mist likely a police academy or military wash out. He probably is currently or has worked as a security guard or bouncer instead. You get the uniform and some authority...but he'

You will learn as I have that in grief, there is no wrong or right way to get through it. There is no formula to follow. If you did find a "how-to" online...I'd be leery about trusting it. I certainly wouldn't suggest that for my Mentees. Having said this, I have noticed in my own grief and in helping others that there are several "roadblocks" we may arrive at in our journey. I can't say they will happen to everyone. Only that these possible scenarios can happen and knowing ahead of time, being prepared may help you over the hurdles or possibly around them completely. I hope by mentioning these things you can assess your own situation and move forward. If they aren't something you find familiar now it's nice just to keep handy for the future. I find its also helpful in understanding others grief. Their personal path. One of the biggest roadblocks I've experienced and observed in others is substance abuse. When we aren't given the tools i