Feeling Sad

Kira's birthday will be this week. She's turning seven. He won't be here to celebrate. We've always gone all out for her birthdays. We wore costumes and made a big deal out of her day. I'm heartbroken he's missing it. But I take comfort in the fact that I have a million photos of the parties before and she will see just how much he loved her. I think he will be watching from up there. 

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